“She’s Cute for a Dark Skinned Girl”

Every since I was in middle school [and I say middle school because in elementary you don’t see color] people have been making statements to or around me, on the lines of “light skin is in” and “I don’t date anyone darker than my skin tone” “all dark skinned girls are ghetto” and the one that I finally experience and still has me upset about to this day [it happened like last week maybe] “your hella cute for a dark skinned girl”. Now personally I don’t know how everyone else would feel or has felt right after a male [or female] tells you that your “cute for a dark skinned girl” but personally I didn’t think anything of it at the moment, however, about five minutes later it hit me and I was highly upset. The thought of someone pretty much saying that I’m cute BUT in reality I would look better if I was light skinned, is not the business. I mean what is it in a skin tone that makes people think that you’re going to act or think a certain way, or that light skinned and pretty hair means that your a beauty queen, or top of the line model, and dark skinned with normal African American hair means that you are ugly, and will never get a man [well a good looking one anyways].

I feel that it’s a shame that African Americans can have arguments with people of different races about racism but is forever skipping over the racism within our own people. Why we have a light skinned VS dark skinned war going on I will never know. Why is it that we can ban together as a people when it comes to racism as a group but we can’t get ourselves together as a people and get the racism that we have within our self’s together. I don’t understand how we can work on racism in the world but not have our own racism under control.

People always wana say that they are not racist but, if you’re making judgments about a culture or even a skin tone that means that you’re racist against that cutler or skin tone. And to be racist against a skin tone is just plain sad because that means for the most part you are having racism on your own people, your own cutler, and your own kind that has had the same struggles that your ancestors have had, so what’s the point in having judgments’ about a certain skin tone

Now I don’t want for people to get me wrong, because there is nothing wrong with having a certain attraction that mainly lies on one skin tone or another; there’s nothing wrong with that at all, its just like how some males like “thick girls” and others like “skinny girls”. HOWEVER when you get to a point when you start automatically believing that one is better than the other, and thinking that one has more class then the other, YA that’s a problem, and it needs to get checked ASAP like a judge that lets a serial killer out on early bail.

Coming from a brown sugar complexion point of view, I feel that my skin is beautiful, and the fact that “dark” skinned girls come in so many colors is a beautiful thing. We are all wonderful as woman and as a people; our strength is amazingly passionate and will never fade away. If we could just come together and see that skin tone does not make you who you are and that being true to yourself is what makes you who you are, maybe just maybe the ignorant comments of “your hella cute for a dark skinned girl” will begin to dwindle away slowly like the idea of us never having a African American president. Its going to take some work, sometime, and some patience, but guess what we do it.

“Brown skin, you know I love your brown skin

I cant tell where yours begins, I cant tell where mine ends

Brown skin, up against my brown skin

Need some every now and thenoh hey

Skin so brown, lips so round
Baby how can I be down?
Beautiful mahogany, you make me feel like a queen

Tell me whats that thing you do that makes me wanna get next to you, yeah” India Arie “Brown Skin”

Tila Tequila Goes Hard On Twitter [WOW!!]

This morning I noticed that I was seeing a WHOLE lot of tweets coming from Ms. Tila Tequila, and finally I took the time to see why and she was going straight off on a celeb [whose name she never mentioned] and I found the tweets to be oh so funny and they left me wondering and trying to guess who she was talking about. The tweets that got me the most and really really had me wanting to know who this mystery slutty celeb was, is when she tweeted

“PS-No wonder you had mad bitches hatin on you…no, not cuz you thnk u fly…but because U be fucking other women’s husbands and fathers etc.. yea u didnt think I know about all this did you? Well it’s hollywood honey. We know everything. Peace. And stop tryna fuck fathers ad sons.. and at least I dont be photoshoppin my pics to make my body look fly…..you need to quite false advertising and lay off the photoshop hunny..”

OH and my MOST favorite one

“Cuz without the photoshop, you aint got nuthing but cellulite all ova ya legs and pussy hanging sagging out of your bikni bottoms. I dont.”

Like really the girl went in on this person. I’m going to be honest I wasn’t really feeling Tila’s vibe before BUT NOW omg the girl has my vote with two thumbs up. Now if we could only find out who the hell she’s talking about. My first guess was Paris Hilton BUT she nipped that in the butt when she tweeted that it wasn’t sooo who’s left?? The only hint that was giving was when she said that Paris Hilton was stabbed in the back by this person also. So who do you think it is??

SNo: About Your Girl

This is another hot song and as of now you guys should know I’m not going to tell you a song is hot if its really not, but because this one is, I’m going to have to recommend that you download this one ASAP. I mean lets be real sometimes upcoming artist are the best. This song here is by SNo [sweet guy I must say] , he say’s “i rap fa da kids das trapped in detention” when I was able to talk to him and get a small quote, so clearly he’s doing his music for more than just him, it has a propose and that always a good thing.

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Follow SNo on Twitter @snothepresident

Nicki Minaj Does A New Interview

Today Nick Minaj the “Harajuku Barbie” uploaded a new interview to her YouTube page and if you ask me this is something that people really show watch if they want to really know who the baddes bitch in the rap game really is right now. Like she says that everyone can take sexy pictures but that’s not who she really is inside. She just likes making really good music and I can feel it. As Nicki Minaj would say “its Barbie bitch”

Does Beyonce Wear Butt Pads

Once again people are trying to hate on the Queen B Beyonce. Now they are trying to say that she wears butt pads, WTF. Well I can’t blame them for thinking this way I mean just look at the pictures you got the one where her dress is going up and then u got the other one where she’s in regular pants and it looks like she has no ass at all. Personally I don’t want to believe this and I want to just blame the fact that her pants are kinda big in the picture, but boy I tell ya when your butt can change that much just from some baggy pants makes it very hard for me to believe that she really has ass. But hey those could just be butt shapers, did they ever try to think of that, no.

Costco’s Lil Monkey Doll Causes Racism

As you can see the picture that I have up above of not of a monkey but is of the panda version of the doll. The reason for this is because Costco has taken down the picture of the My lil Monkey doll [hmm I wonder why maybe cause they knew that they was wrong] and has just left the picture of the panda doll so we just gone rock with that one for now, but I tell you this as SOON as I find it I’m going to put it up because I was highly upset when I saw that picture, like out of all the cute little animals that they could have picked out they gone pick out a damn monkey, they knew damn well that having and African American doll as a monkey would cause some trouble [and they dumb butts called the doll “My Lil Monkey” and that didn’t make it any better] like sometimes I really wish that people would just take a little bit of time before they make dolls, and commercials and things like that because a lot of the time they are highly racist, and then they get mad when people call them out on it. SMH if people would just get it together I feel that things would so much better.

Yahoo talks sh*t about Beyonces handbags

So let me find out the yahoo is trying to go in on Beyonce and her hand bags that she showed off in Tokyo this week. I mean personally I don’t think that the bags are all the bad, they might be a little bit too damn shinny for my taste but other than that they not so bad to me. Especially to a point where one would call them hideous now that’s just wrong and downright hateful. And then the crazy part is that it seems to me that they tried to clown Solange by calling her Beyonces “short haired sister” Yahoo, you know you wrong for that one. HOT MESS Yahoo HOT MESS!

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